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The Essay as Mirror: Why I Keep Coming Back to Personal Narrative

The Essay as Mirror: Why I Keep Coming Back to Personal Narrative

Posted on November 2, 2025November 2, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Writing personal essays isn’t about oversharing — it’s about understanding. Every time I sit down to write, I end up meeting a new version of myself in the reflection. Sometimes he’s brave, so... Read More
When the Story Starts Writing You Back

When the Story Starts Writing You Back

Posted on October 31, 2025October 31, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Something has been stirring lately. It started earlier this year when I organized the fundraiser in honor of Ken’s 60th birthday. What began as a simple idea—to celebrate the life he lived and the... Read More
Writing Away…Since 1982

Writing Away…Since 1982

Posted on January 29, 2017 by Ron Stempkowski
I remember discovering my love of writing when I was around thirteen. It’s galvanized in my memory, and when I think about it, I’m filled with the kind of warmth that can only accompany th... Read More
Connecting Purpose to Loss

Connecting Purpose to Loss

Posted on September 21, 2016October 30, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Why was I crying as I walked down the street, carrying a salad I’d picked up for lunch? No, not because I’m a moosh bag who sobs to any decently scored coffee commercial around the holida... Read More
Back to Class

Back to Class

Posted on May 18, 2016April 22, 2017 by Ron Stempkowski
I decided to take a writing class recently. There is an incredible writing school a couple of blocks away from my condo called Story Studio. I stumbled across it a few years ago during an open house t... Read More
Dear, Diary...

Dear, Diary…

Posted on January 29, 2016April 22, 2017 by Ron Stempkowski
When I’m in the mood or just when I run across them on the shelf in my bedroom, I love to pull out one of my old diaries and read a few entries. It’s a portal to a different time. A different me. ... Read More
5 Years of “The Xanax Diary”

5 Years of “The Xanax Diary”

Posted on December 7, 2015December 7, 2015 by Ron Stempkowski
It seems like I’ve always had this blog; that it has always been here to engage me and calm me and focus me and distract me. But I haven’t. I’ve always written for those reasons, bu... Read More
2014 in review

2014 in review

Posted on December 31, 2014 by Ron Stempkowski
Starting this blog 4 years ago to write about all the things I was feeling saved my sanity. It’s one of my proudest accomplishments…to date. And though I didn’t break any records wri... Read More
My Extraordinary Photo Shoot

My Extraordinary Photo Shoot

Posted on May 4, 2014 by Ron Stempkowski
  My greatest dream since age thirteen–when I discovered my love of writing–was to be a published author. Back then, I wanted to be a novelist, creator of gripping, over-the-top drama... Read More
2013 in review

2013 in review

Posted on December 31, 2013 by Ron Stempkowski
The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2013 annual report for this blog. Here’s an excerpt: A New York City subway train holds 1,200 people. This blog was viewed about 5,800 times in ... Read More
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