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Category: Grief

When a Colleague Disappears From the Grid

When a Colleague Disappears From the Grid

Posted on November 20, 2025November 20, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
We’ve all seen it happen. Someone who’s usually plugged in—responsive, steady, present—suddenly goes quiet. No updates. No replies. Just…silence. Years ago, when Ken was sick, that silence w... Read More
When Personal Grief Meets Professional Expectations

When Personal Grief Meets Professional Expectations

Posted on November 19, 2025November 19, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
There’s this surreal split-screen feeling that happens when you’re grieving, but work keeps moving like it always does. Your life is coming apart at the seams, and yet the calendar notifications k... Read More
The Unseen Grief in Workplace Change

The Unseen Grief in Workplace Change

Posted on November 18, 2025November 18, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Workplace change always looks so tidy on paper. A reorg announcement lands in your inbox with color-coded boxes and arrows pointing confidently toward the future. Leadership says things like “alignm... Read More
An Infusion of Empathy

An Infusion of Empathy

Posted on November 17, 2025November 26, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Lately, I’ve been carrying around this steady, low-grade urge to give the world a giant dose of empathy. Not in a grand, superhero way. More like a quiet nudge. A refill. A top-off. Something warm p... Read More
The Quiet Ways Grief Changed Me—for the Better

The Quiet Ways Grief Changed Me—for the Better

Posted on November 16, 2025November 16, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Grief and loss don’t define me. They inform me. For a long time, I thought grief had rewritten my entire identity. After Ken died, everything felt marked by before and after. I didn’t recognize th... Read More
What Grief Taught Me About Storytelling

What Grief Taught Me About Storytelling

Posted on November 13, 2025November 13, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
There’s a strange thing that happens after you lose someone you love — the story you thought you were living ends mid-sentence. One minute, you’re a “we.” The next, you’re a plot twist you... Read More
The Rituals That Remain

The Rituals That Remain

Posted on November 10, 2025November 11, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
I’ve always loved a good ritual. There’s something comforting about repetition — the way lighting a candle, brewing the same cup of coffee, or playing a familiar song can create a little order i... Read More
The Luck We Carry

The Luck We Carry

Posted on October 21, 2025January 18, 2026 by Ron Stempkowski
Every so often, you meet someone who changes the temperature of your day — not through grand gestures or deep conversations, but through a single, simple truth. That happened to me recently at the l... Read More
A Redemptive Friendship

A Redemptive Friendship

Posted on October 4, 2025October 28, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
I woke up to the news that my friend Craig has died. It was less than a month ago when his sister Teresa, also a dear friend, texted me to tell me that, after some investigation, they were blindsided ... Read More
The Premiere, the Fundraiser, and the Love That Filled the (Virtual) Room

The Premiere, the Fundraiser, and the Love That Filled the (Virtual) Room

Posted on September 23, 2025September 23, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
When I first had the idea to bring Ken’s one-man show, My Foot Left, back to life as a digital premiere and fundraiser, I wasn’t entirely sure what I was getting myself into. Honestly, it fel... Read More
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