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Category: Grief

The Pinch of Fridays

The Pinch of Fridays

Posted on July 21, 2012 by Ron Stempkowski
Fridays aren’t what they used to be. Now Fridays mean no matter what I need–unless is puppy-related–my errands will have to wait until Monday. It’s when my quiet little street ... Read More
Mine Fields of Memories

Mine Fields of Memories

Posted on July 7, 2012 by Ron Stempkowski
My task list had been taunting me all week. I’d managed to get some writing done, in addition to enjoying and caring for me new puppy, but I’ve had some organization projects I’ve be... Read More
This Time of Year

This Time of Year

Posted on June 30, 2012 by Ron Stempkowski
I wasn’t surprised as I’ve felt so confident and content over the last couple of weeks–particularly since adding Kalpurnia Kismet to my family that it might be followed with a grief ... Read More
What a Difference a Year Makes

What a Difference a Year Makes

Posted on June 28, 2012 by Ron Stempkowski
The way time has passed over the last year has never ceased to astound me. As I sit in the front yard playing with Kallie or watching her do her own Chow thing, it’s hard to not look around my q... Read More
Something There Is That Doesn't Love a Wall

Something There Is That Doesn't Love a Wall

Posted on June 25, 2012 by Ron Stempkowski
Getting Kallie–though secretly long-considered–was an impulse decision that was somehow bigger than I. Though hesitant at first, something inside me knew it was the right decision. Yes, th... Read More
Welcoming Kallie...

Welcoming Kallie…

Posted on June 19, 2012December 22, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
I wrote my previous post a couple of weeks ago as I’ve been mulling over the possibility of adding a pooch to my family, doubling its size. And I have to confess, I only had eyes for Chow Chows.... Read More
Whispers of Birthdays Past

Whispers of Birthdays Past

Posted on June 15, 2012 by Ron Stempkowski
Within my families June is a busy birthday month. Yet I constantly forget it also contains mine until someone reminds me. Not as surprising, the same thing happened last year–as my birthday will... Read More
A Nonagenarian Walks into a Bar…

A Nonagenarian Walks into a Bar…

Posted on June 11, 2012 by Ron Stempkowski
Yesterday Ken’s Gram turned 90. We celebrated with a family party at her house in Michigan City. All kinds of relatives came from different parts of the country–many of whom I haven’... Read More
Marking a Weighty Occasion

Marking a Weighty Occasion

Posted on June 2, 2012 by Ron Stempkowski
Yesterday marked the one year anniversary of Ken’s death. In so many ways it’s impossible to fathom. I can still picture him and our life together. How can this be? So often in the interve... Read More
The Bravest Thing I've Ever Done

The Bravest Thing I've Ever Done

Posted on May 27, 2012 by Ron Stempkowski
Since writing about our last adventure together, I’ve thought a lot about all the ones Ken and I shared that came before. Particularly, I was reminded of the bold decision we made in packing up ... Read More
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