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love, loss, healing, and humor…in no particular order

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Let Yourself Be a Beginner

Let Yourself Be a Beginner

Posted on November 24, 2025November 24, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Some Mondays hit like a cold open with no context. You wake up, look around, and think, “Wait… what show is this again?” If that’s you today, you’re in good company. I’ve learned (sometime... Read More
When a Colleague Disappears From the Grid

When a Colleague Disappears From the Grid

Posted on November 20, 2025November 20, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
We’ve all seen it happen. Someone who’s usually plugged in—responsive, steady, present—suddenly goes quiet. No updates. No replies. Just…silence. Years ago, when Ken was sick, that silence w... Read More
When Personal Grief Meets Professional Expectations

When Personal Grief Meets Professional Expectations

Posted on November 19, 2025November 19, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
There’s this surreal split-screen feeling that happens when you’re grieving, but work keeps moving like it always does. Your life is coming apart at the seams, and yet the calendar notifications k... Read More
The Unseen Grief in Workplace Change

The Unseen Grief in Workplace Change

Posted on November 18, 2025November 18, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Workplace change always looks so tidy on paper. A reorg announcement lands in your inbox with color-coded boxes and arrows pointing confidently toward the future. Leadership says things like “alignm... Read More
An Infusion of Empathy

An Infusion of Empathy

Posted on November 17, 2025November 26, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Lately, I’ve been carrying around this steady, low-grade urge to give the world a giant dose of empathy. Not in a grand, superhero way. More like a quiet nudge. A refill. A top-off. Something warm p... Read More
The Quiet Ways Grief Changed Me—for the Better

The Quiet Ways Grief Changed Me—for the Better

Posted on November 16, 2025November 16, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Grief and loss don’t define me. They inform me. For a long time, I thought grief had rewritten my entire identity. After Ken died, everything felt marked by before and after. I didn’t recognize th... Read More
The Writing Life, Rewritten - November Edition: Momentum Happens Quietly

The Writing Life, Rewritten – November Edition: Momentum Happens Quietly

Posted on November 14, 2025November 27, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Hi friends, November always feels like a creative crossroads. The year’s winding down, but my brain seems to ramp up this time of year. Maybe it’s the early darkness. Maybe it’s that familiar en... Read More
What Grief Taught Me About Storytelling

What Grief Taught Me About Storytelling

Posted on November 13, 2025November 13, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
There’s a strange thing that happens after you lose someone you love — the story you thought you were living ends mid-sentence. One minute, you’re a “we.” The next, you’re a plot twist you... Read More
The Rituals That Remain

The Rituals That Remain

Posted on November 10, 2025November 11, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
I’ve always loved a good ritual. There’s something comforting about repetition — the way lighting a candle, brewing the same cup of coffee, or playing a familiar song can create a little order i... Read More
The Essay as Mirror: Why I Keep Coming Back to Personal Narrative

The Essay as Mirror: Why I Keep Coming Back to Personal Narrative

Posted on November 2, 2025November 2, 2025 by Ron Stempkowski
Writing personal essays isn’t about oversharing — it’s about understanding. Every time I sit down to write, I end up meeting a new version of myself in the reflection. Sometimes he’s brave, so... Read More
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